I believe that every relationship, with the right nurturing and guidance, has the potential to be a source of immense joy and fulfillment. My role is to provide couples with the tools they need to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts in a healthy way, and deepen their emotional connection. Through therapy and coaching, I help couples understand each other better, overcome challenges, and cultivate a love that is resilient, compassionate, and wholehearted.
Finding the right therapist can be challenging. And it makes sense that you would want to feel comfortable with the person who will bear witness to your life’s journey. So let me share some information about myself, and perhaps you will develop a sense of who I am and how I will work with you.
First of all, the clients I work with include individuals, and couples. As a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist and Imago Workshop Presenter, I specialize in couples work. My belief is that couples heal and grow in the context of a committed relationship. Thus, I will teach you and your partner the communication skills needed to create the level of safety required for this growth and healing to take place.
For the individual seeking therapy, my approach is supportive and you will also learn how to increase your coping skills with life’s challenges related to depression, anxiety, grief and loss. For individuals who desire to embark upon a new relationship, I will help you make sense of the struggles you experienced in the past, so you can learn the art of co-creating the relationship of your dreams for the future.
Looking back at my 25 years of experience in the airline industry I was blessed with the opportunity to visit over 20 countries. In my own journey I developed a deep appreciation for the many different cultures I encountered. This extraordinary experience has given me a greater understanding and empathy for the diverse population of clients I see in my practice today.
Quite differently, my 10 years of stage acting is noteworthy, not because of any performance I may have given, but rather for the personal work calling upon me to get in touch with all aspects of myself, giving way to my own growth and healing. While I am still on that journey of self-discovery, this new found energy gives life to the humorous, informative, and engaging workshops and seminars I present.
Yes I'm married! Lillian and I have been married over 34 years. The tools work. Understanding the back-story is essential!
For Therapists seeking help working with Couples:
I'm also a Certified Imago Clinical Consultant helping therapists enhance their couples work. For more information about this process, please contact me at 510-290-9975. My feedback approach is gentle, supportive, nurturing yet challenging.
